Mentors – Listen To Them

I mentioned the importance of having a mentor in a previous post, Mentorship: The Only Way To Success – ironically, my first blog post – and that hasn’t changed; I still believe they are an integral part of the successes I’ve had in my life, both personally and professionally.

The Power of Mentorship: Why Listening to the Right People Can Change Everything

Building a business is never easy. It’s demanding, uncertain, and at times, overwhelming. But one factor can make all the difference between spinning your wheels and actually gaining traction: having a mentor—and listening to them.

Mentors aren’t just experienced guides; they are accelerators. They help you see around corners, avoid costly mistakes, and stay focused on what truly matters. Without a mentor, you’re navigating blindfolded through terrain they’ve already mapped. With a mentor, you move faster, smarter, and with greater confidence.

Why Mentorship Matters

At its core, mentorship is about leverage—borrowing someone else’s wisdom so you don’t have to pay the full price of learning everything the hard way. A good mentor compresses decades of experience into bite-sized, actionable advice. They’ve been where you are. They’ve made the wrong hires, chased the wrong opportunities, wasted time on distractions, and learned exactly what works—and what doesn’t.

Without mentorship, it’s easy to fall into traps: trying to do everything yourself, focusing on tasks that don’t move the needle, getting stuck in analysis paralysis, or worse—quitting too soon. A mentor pulls you out of that fog. They shine a light on the right path, tell you what to stop doing, and challenge you to commit fully.

That’s exactly what I got when I decided to invest in myself.

Investing in Guidance: My Hour with Dean Holland

Recently, I spent an hour with Dean Holland, a well-respected entrepreneur known for building successful businesses and mentoring thousands of others to do the same. This wasn’t just a casual conversation. It was an intentional, strategic investment in my future. I didn’t go into it hoping for magic; I went into it ready to listen, learn, and apply.

In that one hour, Dean did more than just offer surface-level encouragement. He gave me clarity. He helped me see exactly how I should be using the time I have right now to grow my business—not in theory, not someday, but starting immediately. He broke things down to their essentials, removed the clutter, and handed me a plan that was both practical and powerful.

He didn’t sugarcoat anything either. He asked tough questions, pushed me to commit, and reminded me that half-measures don’t get results. If you’re not all in, you’re already out.

And that my friends, hit home.

100% Commitment or Nothing

Let’s be honest—too many people say they want to succeed, but their actions say otherwise. They work on their business when they “have time,” dabble here and there, and second-guess themselves into inaction. But businesses don’t grow on maybes. They grow on commitment. Total, no-excuses, burn-the-boats commitment.

That’s what Dean challenged me to embrace. Not a hobbyist mindset. Not waiting until the stars align. But a full, 100% commitment to building the business I say I want.

So I made the decision: I’m in. No more hesitating. No more wasting time on low-priority tasks. No more trying to do this alone when I have access to people who’ve already walked this path.

Why You Have to Listen to Mentors

Here’s the truth that stings a little: If you’re not where you want to be, it’s probably because you haven’t been listening to the right people—or you’ve been ignoring their advice.

Most of us don’t lack information. We’re drowning in it. What we lack is clarity and guidance. That’s what mentors provide—if we’re willing to listen.

Listening to mentors doesn’t mean blindly following everything they say. It means trusting their experience enough to weigh their advice seriously. It means putting your ego aside. It means understanding that success leaves clues, and those clues aren’t always what you want to hear—but they’re what you need to hear.

When Dean told me to stop focusing on distractions and start doing the real work that matters, he wasn’t giving me a magic formula. He was giving me the truth. And listening to that truth—and acting on it—is where real growth happens.

The Time is Now

There’s a reason Dean focused on how I use my time. Time is the most precious resource or commodity any entrepreneur – on anybody for that matter – has. You can earn back money. You can rebuild a brand. But you can’t get back time you wasted.

And what many people don’t realize is that you don’t need more time to succeed. You need to use the time you already have more effectively. That’s what Dean helped me see.

Whether you’ve got 10 hours a week or 2 hours a day, it’s what you do with that time that counts. Are you producing or just consuming? Are you building assets or staying “busy”? Remember being a “busy fool?”. Are you moving forward or stuck in circles?

Mentors help you stop wasting time on things that don’t matter. They focus you on income-producing activities. They teach you to work on your business, not just in it. And that shift—when you truly make it—is when everything starts to change.

You’re Either Growing or Stalling

Without guidance, it’s easy to feel like you’re progressing when you’re really standing still. You can spend hours designing a logo, building a website, tweaking copy—without ever talking to a customer or making a sale.

Mentors call you on that. They tell you what matters most right now, not eventually. For me, Dean made it clear that my focus had to be on action. Execution over perfection. Sales over aesthetics. Consistency over convenience. He’s mentioned this to everyone he has mentored.

And more importantly, he helped me realize that I was the only one responsible for making it happen. No one else is coming to build your business for you. No one else is going to care more than you do. If you’re not all in, you’re out.

Final Thoughts: Get the Right Voices in Your Head

If you’re serious about building something meaningful—whether it’s a business, a brand, or a legacy—you need mentors. You need people who’ve already done it. You need to invest your time, money, and energy into getting in the room with those who can guide you.

But getting access isn’t enough. You have to listen. You have to be coachable. You have to act on what you learn.

My hour with Dean Holland was more than a strategy session. It was a wake-up call. It reminded me that time is short, the path is clear if you let it be, and the only thing standing between where you are and where you want to be—is what you choose to do next.

So choose to listen. Choose to act. Choose to go all in.

Because success isn’t reserved for the lucky. It’s reserved for the committed.

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To your success…to our success!